Parents Evaluations
(Name and address of client
withheld)
(Name of siblings changed)
9th May
Please give an example(s) of a
typical interaction that used to occur
with your child
Sam would very easily lose his
temper and be rude in his responses to us.
Did you see a change in this behaviour?
As identified when Warwick visited us we
recognised the need to change how we interacted with Sam. We
started this immediately after Warwick left. The difference in
his behaviour was noticeable within days. As we were calmer in
our dealings with him so the temper tantrums decreased.
What have been the effects on your family of your decision to
involve the BCC?
We recognised we had a problem that
would not go away or that he would "grow out of". We are
extremely pleased that we involved the BCC as we can see real
changes. The support received has been tremendous and still
is.
Although we realise we are not there yet; we have gone a long
way down the road to having a well behaved child. I cannot
remember the last time I actually shouted at him or lost my
temper with him. The normal sanction of sending him to his room
has not been used since we started using sanctions in the way
that was explained. This really does work. Linda and I now
are not only calmer in dealing with Sam but also calmer between
ourselves. The ongoing contact and advice available are really
worth while.
Would you recommend BCC to other parents of children with
challenging behaviour?
We both agree it is, and continues to
be, money well spent, we would have no hesitation in recommending
BCC to any other parents with a problem.
Behaviour Change
Consultancy 24 Rochdale, Harold Road, London, SE19 3TF
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